Change

Blogfirmation: Maintain your forward course, there is nothing behind you that you ever will need again, in this life or the next.

 

It has been officially a year today that I have been in my new city. Wow, I can’t believe it sometimes that I took this major step and move to a whole new state all by myself. But you know what it was worth it. Despite everything that has happened since today I am so grateful for this new transformation in my life. When I tell you if there is anything you want to do in this lifetime, do it! Take a chance on yourself.

I remember telling my sister after I spent thanksgiving with her for the first time in years that I wanted to move here.  The energy and the feeling that I felt after visiting her was so different. It was light and it just felt good. I was like you know what I am going to move here. I am going to give myself six months and just move. Of course, once I made my mind up, I started planning accordingly.  My sister has been trying to get me to move to Texas for a while. But I just had to do it in my own time.

I am a true believer that everything happens for a reason. This transformation is not finished for me. You start to develop more clarity on things when you have some things move out of your life. You start seeing things from a different perspective. So, I encourage you to step out on faith and take some risks. I see some of my family and friends creating things and I just want to say I am proud of you. It can be challenging taking that first step.

Taking the first step to create my website was exciting yet a little scary. I have been doing research to just make sure that I choose the right thing for me. Everything that you are reading and seeing I created. The saying is “The path might not be easy, but it will be well worth it.” I am telling you this while I am actively experiencing everything also.

When you have a million thoughts going through your mind every day, whether they be positive or negative you have to sort them out. Anytime I get a negative thought, I have to ask myself was that me really thinking that thought?  Then I tell myself that those are not my thoughts. I want to think positive thoughts all the time. I am thinking about all the great possibilities that can happen and let go of the negative thoughts that pop up. I want to attract nothing but great things into my reality.

I know sometimes change can be a little unsettling at first. But if you keep doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result, how is change going to enter your energy? It won’t be able to. All these changes that have been happening in my life have been eye opening and have put certain things in perspective for me. It made me see that you can do anything if you put your mind to it. It made me realize that some of your own family and friends won’t even support you. And you know what, it is ok.  I only focus on the ones who are supportive.

The older you get, the wiser you should become. You should focus on things that bring you peace, laughter and light. That’s truly my focus in the present tense of my life. I am no longer focused on anything that has happened in the past. I don’t even want to bring up anything from the past. When you tend to bring up things that have already happened, it puts you back in that particular emotion that was created at that time. I am telling you there are still things that I am still unlearning and learning. I am unlearning all the things that don’t mean me any good, and learning how to train my thoughts, and my actions. Maybe we can learn new things together. Change is necessary for our evolution. One thing that I remember always is that the only thing that stays constant is change.

 

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Signing off……

 

Jay Da Vibe