Blogfirmation: Believe in yourself so much that you will naturally become magnetic to everything you want to attract. It all starts within you.

This past week has been amazing. In all honesty I didn’t know what to expect, but I wanted to make sure that my bestie who came to visit was comfortable and that she enjoyed herself as well. My sister and my bestie really out did themselves to make sure that I had a great solar return. From pedicures to candle making to even setting up a girl’s night where we did a little paint and sip (non-alcoholic of course). They truly exceeded my expectations. We even had a spa day.  I truly didn’t know what to expect. I just wanted to be around people who love me unconditionally. It really didn’t matter what we did. This past week went extremely fast. I am truly grateful for my circle. My circle of sisterhood is an unbreakable bond. It’s incredible to know that the love from them is reciprocated. I truly hope that you also have genuine people who are equally supportive and loving in your life as well.

I know my plan while the bestie was here was to work on our business, which we did discuss more creative ways to grow but that was early on in the week. I even try to write down more things that I wanted to manifest into this reality. I had my bestie to start her list as well. I encourage you all to do the same. Write down 100 things that you want to manifest. It can be anything and watch the universe make it happen. I had 3 things on my list to come to fruition this week, when I looked over my list. As I stated before, manifestation is real. I started to read the book called “The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success”, it’s a quick read but one of the chapters is called the Law of Detachment. This chapter basically explains that the way to acquire anything in the universe is to relinquish our attachment to it. Set your intention on your desire but give up the attachment on the outcome. We tend to focus on how we are going to get what we want, but we should only be focusing on what is going on right now.

This book is a great read to have in your possession. It puts a lot of things into perspective to me.  Just know that what is meant for you will not pass you by. I have definitely created intentions going forward for myself. I am learning on just letting things happen on its own. I tend to stay in my mind a lot, but I am learning to stop focusing on how I can make things happen in my own life. As a person who is constantly thinking about every little detail, I am learning to just relax and let things flow. I still plant my seeds on things that I want, but I am learning not to focused on how it’s going to happen. When you open your heart to receive, and let things flow, things start to happen that will far exceed your expectations.

When my bestie was here, she was so focused on making sure that she found a place to stay while she does contract work, that the place that she wanted at the time had already had another client that rented out that property. I can tell that she was a little discouraged. We sat on my balcony, and I told her that everything is going to work out the way it is supposed to, and that she would get the place that she desired. I spoke that over her. Well, how about the next day, the same place she wanted, the client that had booked previously ended up canceling and the owner ended up reaching back out to her to see if she was still interested. Look how fast the turnaround was. I told her that it was going to happen for her. I was so elated for her. Everything always works out, sometimes better than we can imagine.

You have to know that sometimes rejection is protection. I been applying for jobs for a while now. I have already written what I want in my next job or career going forward.  The jobs that I have been applying for since I lost my job have been pretty basic customer service jobs, and let me tell you, I been getting nothing but rejection emails. I have looked at my resume a thousand times to see if there is anything I need to change. Even my circle has sent jobs to me as well. I am not going to lie, I started to feel a little discourage myself. I even talk to my bestie about it and told her that I think that spirit just wants me to focus on what I am currently doing.  Every rejection that I have received I tell myself that rejection is god’s protection. I know that there is something greater for me, I am still trusting the process and keeping the faith.

I am grateful for more moments of clarity. I am grateful to know that there is a higher calling on my life, and that people looking from a different angle will not inner stand what is going on, or how things are working out. I am grateful for a life full of ease and peace. This solar return (birthday) has been nothing but full of joy, love, and amazing things. It is setting me up to know that there are going to be more moments like this coming in the future. I know that I have solid, caring, genuine people in my life, and I am forever grateful for the love that was shown to me.

Signing off……

Jay Da Vibe